Friday, February 28, 2025

There is only Zuhl

 For a variety of reasons—most of them having to do with traffic—we don’t go on excursions nearly as often as we used to when the kids were smaller.  If I’m going to schlep through an hour of traffic one way to get to the other side of town, the destination better be worth it.  Then there’s the cost to consider.  I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older that the more something costs, the higher the bar for it being a good experience.   The Children’s Museum might be amazing but if I have to drive half an hour, fight for downtown parking, and then pay $30 apiece, I’d rather get some McDonald’s and go to the park with friends.

Sometimes, though, I will take a risk.  A friend recommended the Zuhl Museum in Las Cruces, which is about 45 minutes northwest of El Paso.  It’s a small geology museum on the New Mexico State University campus.  Its tagline is “Where rocks come alive!” which seems to try a little harder than absolutely necessary to convince us that rocks are fun. At any rate, last week I hit a point where we all needed to get out of the house so I opted for a last-minute field trip.

Totally worth it.

The museum isn't much bigger than my house, but it was awesome.  There were excellent crystals and minerals found in the surrounding mountains, and massive fossils including a variety of femurs, crinoids, and nautilus shells.  The petrified wood…well, I was raised in northeastern Arizona, and I’m kind of a petrified wood snob.  It just doesn’t generally impress me.  This museum’s collection did.  Polished table-size slabs of the stuff, entire stumps, palm trees, pinecones…it was amazing.

Teenager for scale.








My favorite part was the fossil room, complete with a mosasaur skeleton and a baby mammoth that was discovered north of Fairbanks, Alaska.  (The girls and I may have whooped a little loudly, to the displeasure of the older couple sharing the museum with us.)  There were also massive bug imprints, fish skeletons, dinosaur bones, and so much more.  We've found fragments of fossils out in the desert, which is pretty common considering that 80 million years ago Texas was underwater as part of the great Inland Sea, but it was still pretty awesome to see complete versions of the plants and shells we picked out of the limestone out at the shooting range.




Mosasaurs



A dimetrodon, one of my two favorite dinosaurs--and he's happy to see you!
(The other is an ankylosaurus, if you're curious, and yes, I know dimetrodons aren't *technically* dinosaurs.  My favorite ancient reptiles, if you're going to be like that.)







Crinoids like we find in the quarry.

The docent was great.  I love talking to the staff in museums, especially smaller ones (smaller museums, not docents--the size of the person is mostly immaterial).  They always have something interesting to share.  The guy on duty was a geology student himself specializing in…I forget, but something complicated, field-based, and geological.  He had discovered some of the items on display, and he shared one of his very favorite pieces with us—a 2.5 million year old fossilized pinecone.  We all got to hold it. It was awesome. I mean, yeah, rocks are definitionally old, but this still felt like holding a piece of the past that your normal garden rock just can’t compete with.  He answered the girls’ questions and just seemed happy to have someone to talk to. 


So if you ever find yourself in Las Cruces with an hour to kill, you could do worse than the Zuhl Museum.  Yes, there are other places you could look at rocks for free, but these ones are really nice rocks.  Like really nice.

Little gifts from the docent--dinosaur models.


Sunday, January 26, 2025

The 2025 To-Do List


January is a month for goals.  Goals you make, goals you break, goals you aspire to but know you'll never do, goals you realign to become more practical, goals you discreetly shuffle to one side and pretend you never made, and--sometimes--goals you manage to keep.  I'm not much of a goal-maker myself.  I like short-term lists of things that need to be done, and even then it's mostly because I enjoy crossing stuff off the list.  It makes me feel accomplished.  It also makes it easier to tackle the never-ending list of last-minute crises that were a significant part of my 30s and seem destined to be part of my 40s. 

I digress.

I've made a list of goals this year.  40, to be precise.  (In addition to crossing stuff off lists, I also enjoy symmetry and symbolism, however loose.)  These goals fall into 3 major categories: specific task or experience, skill development, and personal improvement.  Yes, yes, I admit--some of these are excuses to do things I already wanted or needed to do.  In my defense, 40 is a really big number.

In no particular order, here it goes.
  • Learn to shingle and reshingle the shed
  • Gravel the backyard
  • Blog 2x a month
  • Read 12 books (already chosen, that's another post)
  • Write 1 book
  • Paint 2x a month
  • Stop swearing
  • Learn to use a chainsaw
  • Learn violin
  • Whitewater rafting in Santa Fe, either solo or lady-friends trip
  • Run a 5k
  • Bench press 75 lbs
  • Get a pedicure and facial
  • Learn Spanish
  • Build a piece of furniture
  • Break my phone addiction and lessen non-educational screentime in general
  • Do a Savage Daughters photo shoot with my girls
  • Read the Book of Mormon all the way through (done this previously, but still a good thing)
  • Read scriptures every day
  • Pray every day
  • Lose 15 lbs
  • Sew a t-shirt quilt
  • Paint 12 model horses
  • Learn to fence
  • Refinish kitchen cabinets
  • Practice pistol and rifle marksmanship 1x a month
  • Complete a gunsmithing course
  • Repair the shed siding
  • Save $250 a month
  • Archery 1x a week
  • Build an outhouse on our Alaska swamp with Tom Nixon (if circumstances work out)
  • Go to the temple at least 2x
  • Go to an El Paso Rhinos Junior Hockey Game
  • Repaint kitchen to match rest of house
  • Recaulk tubs
  • Learn Irish stick fighting
  • Belly dance 2x a month
  • Get Leah's driver license
  • Take a tax preparer class
  • 24 dates with Rick
Whew.

So how am I doing? Not too bad.  To keep from overstretching myself (and consequently crashing and burning) I have focused on building habits this month, choosing consistency over quantity.  I got a gym membership and actually go 3 or more days a week.  Spanish has been a daily habit thanks to Duolingo and that wretched little owl.  Prayers and scripture study have been solid.  I haven't tackled any of the house projects yet, but I did manage to repair the control display and faulty button on my stove, so that's a win even if it isn't on the list.  I have eked out two blogs this month and plan on at least one more.  Watercolors and horses are proceeding apace.  I also made it to the temple. I'm also on track to finish my first reading book (even though it will probably take a day of binge-reading).

Seriously, lists.  They make it all easier.

Lego and burger date.  Check.

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Almost 40 and I'm gonna kill it.

 This year I turn 40.  I'm not big on birthdays since, as an adult, I can generally do and buy what I want throughout the year.  However, this one is kind of a milestone.  I'm solidly middle aged.  I'm approximately half-way through my anticipated lifespan. Despite the grind and turmoil of this time of life, I'm still here.  It's worth celebrating.

So I'm going to.  I generated a list of 40 things I either want to do, learn, or experience over the next year.  A couple of them are cool, a couple are generic, a couple are really hard and--because I'm not completely round the twist yet--a couple of them are mind-numbingly easy and pleasant to accomplish.  I'm not going into the list in this post because one of my goals is to write more and I'm going to need the material.  I will say that this is going to be a year of challenge, transformation, and indulgence in ways I've mostly avoided before.  Worse, it's going to be mostly intentional.

An epic misadventure like this is going to need a soundtrack.  I've picked 40 songs to pump me up when I inevitably start considering throwing in the towel.  In mostly no particular order, here we go--40 and Killing It, the soundtrack for my next year.

Against the Tide—Sail North. https://youtu.be/dHu9dXRR8sU?feature=shared

Alaska—Little Hurt. https://youtu.be/n55A2-yI9gY?feature=shared

Believer—Imagine Dragons. https://youtu.be/7wtfhZwyrcc?feature=shared

Carry On Wayward Son—Kansas. https://youtu.be/2X_2IdybTV0?feature=shared

The Cave—Mumford and Sons.  https://youtu.be/IgDNCmGr-Q4?feature=shared

Come Alive—The Greatest Showman. https://youtu.be/BURBlSYPmBU?feature=shared

Come Thou Fount—David Crowder Band. https://youtu.be/2IYx6Z01Ll8?feature=shared

Could Have Been Me—The Struts. https://youtu.be/rfHGqvbSjkA?feature=shared

Feeling Good—Michael BublĂ©. https://youtu.be/Edwsf-8F3sI?feature=shared

Fight Song—Rachel Platten. https://youtu.be/XbxNtPiCBK8?feature=shared

Firework—Katy Perry. https://youtu.be/QGJuMBdaqIw?feature=shared

Go the Distance—Peyton Parrish. https://youtu.be/J5U1EoZlw30?feature=shared

He’s a Pirate—Klaus Badelt. https://youtu.be/BuYf0taXoNw?feature=shared

Hit Me With Your Best Shot—Pat Benatar. https://youtu.be/JRD80XRMT7s?feature=shared

I Hope You Dance—Lee Ann Womack. https://youtu.be/F44nrK0MxEQ?feature=shared

I’d Rather Be Me—Barrett Wilbert Weed (Mean Girls). https://youtu.be/u075TmA_6TU?feature=shared

If We Hold On Together—Diana Ross. https://youtu.be/KHlvfGKfSNk?feature=shared

If You’re Going Through Hell—Rodney Atkins. https://youtu.be/l50L4GYhpLc?feature=shared

I’m Still Here—John Rzeznik. https://youtu.be/MUZwblurraA?feature=shared

Lean on Me—Bill Withers. https://youtu.be/fOZ-MySzAac?feature=shared

Let it Be—The Beatles. https://youtu.be/CGj85pVzRJs?feature=shared

Made You Look—Meghan Trainor. https://youtu.be/8JZPdp8W2Jg?feature=shared

Memories—Maroon 5. https://youtu.be/SlPhMPnQ58k?feature=shared

The Middle—Jimmy Eat World. https://youtu.be/FV-HPOHu8mY?feature=shared

The Parting Glass—Waking Ned Devine. https://youtu.be/25fHIKByC9Q?feature=shared

Promentory—Trevor Jones. https://youtu.be/u3YFAOnuZCo?feature=shared

The Rider—Paris Paloma. https://youtu.be/oemkWt36hvk?feature=shared

The River—Garth Brooks. https://youtu.be/CGNq60UMsdI?feature=shared

Roll Away Your Stone—Mumford and Sons. https://youtu.be/b0Puvnp5kTw?feature=shared

Savage Daughter—Ekaterina Shelehova. https://youtu.be/tegev08KyHY?feature=shared

Seasons of Love—Rent. https://youtu.be/UvyHuse6buY?feature=shared

Shut Up and Dance—Walk the Moon. https://youtu.be/6JCLY0Rlx6Q?feature=shared

Something Wild—Lindsey Stirling and Andrew McHahon. https://youtu.be/DkgNzYC5e08?feature=shared

Son of Man—Peyton Parrish. https://youtu.be/8Ip8un6avfY?feature=shared

Try Everything—Shakira. https://youtu.be/JuGfFpKwiug?feature=shared

Unsinkable—Sail North. https://youtu.be/1mYzJVwUNJs?feature=shared

Valhalla Calling—Peyton Parrish. https://youtu.be/tG7fk_DUz5g?feature=shared

Wake Me Up—Avicii. https://youtu.be/5y_KJAg8bHI?feature=shared

You Learn—Alanis Morrissette. https://youtu.be/GFW-WfuX2Dk?feature=shared

You Raise Me Up—Josh Groban. https://youtu.be/yZv0eZ-KS3I?feature=shared


Cheers to the new year and the countless new opportunities.  Love you all!